Sabtu, 04 Agustus 2012

3 Things I Love Today

1. Peruvian Tapas at Piqueos in San Francisco- Delicious, the Boy's friend from college is here and we got about half the tapas and they were pretty much all awesome. Great restaurant.
2. Swimming- After we ate out, we went back to Jim's fancypants hotel (he is here for a fancypants job interview). The boys sat in the hot tub and talked to some weirdo couple, and I got to just play in the pool. I love swimming. It is the most relaxing thing in the whole world to just play in the water.
3. Doing your Dirty Work: a sampler of contemporary work about sex- The Center for Sex and Culture have a fantastic show opening this weekend, which really captures much of the mission of the CSC and features a broad range of work about sex, showing the range of intelligent, fun, and emotional work available on a topic that a lot of art institutions still shy away from. It's a great show, and if you are in San Francisco, you should check it out. It also has to be the only place where you have a couple of naked guys walking around your opening. If you haven't been to the CSC yet, go. I guarantee you it will surprise you.
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Kamis, 02 Agustus 2012

3 Things I Love Today

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from www.thefreshfilms.com/Movies/bonclyde.htm

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1. Everything Bonnie from Bonnie and Clyde- I watched this movie from 1967 this afternoon, and Faye Dunaway is really pretty fantastic in it. It is amazing to me this movie doesn't get mentioned more often as a good example of a great female character because her badassery is both the catalyst of the whole film and treated as an absolute given. The story is as more hers than anyone else's and she is the most well-rounded and flawed character of them all. Also, and on a much shallower note, her wardrobe is this unbelievable 1930's/60's hybrid that is just jaw dropping in every single scene. Seriously, you could watch the movie just for her clothes, as bizarrely double-dated as they are. Someone waify needs to use this as a starting ground for their personal style. When the film started, I didn't totally get the appeal of Faye Dunaway, but man she is just a quiet powerhouse. Fantastic performance that built a lot out of a character who could have been a stereotype or underwritten a great deal.
from imdb.com
Dunaway on the part-  "Never have I felt so close to a character as I felt to Bonnie. She was a yearning, edgy, ambitious southern girl who wanted to get out of wherever she was. I knew everything about wanting to get out, and getting out doesn’t come easy. But with Bonnie there was real tragic irony. She got out only to see that she was heading nowhere and the end was death.

There was a real kind of fierceness I’d seen in Bonnie that I recognized in myself as well. You look at photos of her and see it in her eyes, the set of her jaw. It takes fierceness in life to get ahead. I already knew that. Bonnie was Tennessee Williams, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof time. She knew the only way to get what she wanted was through her own sheer force of will. She was driven by her own desire. I know that territory - you do whatever it takes. She wanted to be something special, something out of the ordinary.”

from www.ifc.com/fix/2010/04/dede-allen-1923-2010
2. Dede Hall's editing in Bonnie and Clyde- not only does the film boast two interesting performances from women, but it also has really fantastic cinematography and editing. When I looked up the info on the editor, I was happily surprised that it was a woman. Two sequences come to mind- one is immediately after this particular heist, when a chase scene is spliced together with the interogation of the victims. The whole thing, with the addition of the music, really has a lot of joy and fun (helping to endear the criminals to the audience). Secondly, and I don't want to ruin it in case you netflix instant stream this movie (do it, it's long but it is worth it), but the last two minutes are extremely effecting without being sappy- it's all the editing that does it. It is a tour de force set of cuts and it creates a great emotional ambiguity and strange tension/calm that are so effective and smart.
3. Any Olympic Coverage that isn't Swimming- I am so sick of swimming. It becomes much less impressive that Phelps won so many medals when you see how many freaking swims there are. He has the widest net ever. And, no offense to Amanda Rose who I know has a much better understanding of the sport than I, you can only watch so many races. They are all the same and they are all boring. Also, the big star swimmers are not that likable, other than Missy Franklin who is pretty adorable. But seriously NBC, how much of this do we have to watch when there are so many sports to cover!? So bored with it.
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Thoughts on Bed and Breakfasting (Or "We Just Aren't that Grown Up Yet")


This weekend, the Boy and I  headed up to (very) Northern California to see Redwood National Forests. We wanted to do something different, so we decided to stay at the Lost Whale Inn. It is a Bed and Breakfast which is right on the water in Trinidad. I am not sure I have ever, at least definitely not in my adult life, stayed in a Bed and Breakfast, so these are my thoughts on the whole experience.

We had to drive up to Trinidad from the city, and since we left just in time for rush hour, it took us about 7 hours. By the time we got to the B and B it was super dark, so it felt like we were just down some barren dark road. Our room was pretty little, but it was super cute and decorated in all sort of whale stuff. Clearly, whale decor is needed for a good time.


The next morning we woke up to a really pretty view. We were pumped for the breakfast, which is apparently why the place has such a great  reputation. It was super delicious- have you ever had peach cobbler? That shiz is delicious! Also, I have never gotten the appeal of scones- they are dry and chalky, but these ones had fresh raspberries which were awesome.

Despite the deliciosity of the breakfast, this is about the moment where we realized that perhaps Bed and Breakfast living is not for us. Do you know they expect you to  mingle? We had to share a table with another family and everyone wants to talk to everyone else. Oh boy. We were both horrified, because talking to strangers is like the least relaxing thing in the world. Don't get me wrong, we always meet people when we travel, and I generally like people. But the conversation just lasts as long as it lasts. This is more like the beginning of church camp, where you are mingling with people you are going to see the whole freaking time!


But did I mention how cute the room was?


And this is  the view from our window. It was so pretty and serene. A very different kind of beach view. You certainly complain about this, which I think is why some of the people there just kind of hang out there all day.


Before we headed out to see some trees, we wanted to check out the private path to the beach that the Inn's website talked about. We even heard July was the time of year where baby seals are around, so we weren't going to miss that.


The path was way more hardcore than we expected, and in the last 80 feet or so you have to climb down a ladder to get there. We felt like action heroes!


Then, suddenly you are at this gorgeous beach (it was really foggy all day which I loved). 


I don't have any pictures that really show it, but there were families of seals out on some of the rocks. It was very rocky, but it was just gorgeous, so I think the time we spent on the beach was worth the whole trip. And even if we winced every time the tire salesman tried to tell us about Jesus (we told him we were Episcopalean like 5 times!)- also, this is true and not an exageration or caricature.When you add in the scones, all in all it was good.


More pretty beach shots. 


Seriously! It was that good!


This is the Boy getting ready to master the rope ladder back up. The hike was probably 20-25 minutes, and it was so steep heading back up! It kicked our butt before we even got started!We didn't realize how tough it would be, so I feel like they should warn people more emphatically. I feel like the average age of the guests (there are only like 20 at a time) has to be 50 or so, and that is a really tough path.

At 4, the B and B has a tea time, but shucks we missed that. We were back to the Lost Whale Inn around 6:30 and a lot of the guests were all sitting out on the back porch drinking wine and talking. We friendly waved and briefly chatted about taking a lot of their advice of where to go (another plus, I guess). Then we stole a bunch of the tea time food (also delicious, but I think we can safely mark this as a less mature route than just being friendly while we eat our chocolate strawberries and asparagus toast and such). We hid in our room to eat, and it was so good we snuck down to steal more.


The next morning we sat with another family for breakfast, but the conversation just kept stalling. Does anyone else feel like they just run out of questions when talking to someone else? I do not have enough skills at this, and being a grad student, I find awkward silence sucks the life out of me. I didn't even feel comfortable taking a picture of our breakfast!  They wanted to talk about the massages they got the day before, but I am sorry, how much is there to be said about massages? Yes, they were great and relaxing. Isn't that nice. Blerg strangers! Why won't you let me change the topic when there is nothing left to say about how nice massages are!


We came back up to our room to pack up and the Boy wrote in their cutesy guest book.  It was about how we named all the whales, and if you thought they had different names you were a fool. Then we drew this picture. 

So my final thought is that we need to be more competent adults to appreciate all of the pluses of staying somewhere bed and breakfasty. Maybe I need to have a greater appreciation of massages, but I dont like staying still on trips. We are always there to explore! So, we probably won't do that one again until we master the art of conversation, learn to drink lots of wine, and stop hiding from strangers who want to talk to us. But we loved the peach cobbler, the beach, and the coziness of the room. So I feel like we failed the Lost Whale Inn, but the Lost Whale in did not fail us.


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Wedding Wednesday- Yes.

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Rabu, 01 Agustus 2012

Wedding Wednesday- It's AUGUST!!!!! What to Do, What to Do?

Ok, so now that it is the month of the wedding, you will have to forgive non-Wednesday wedding posts. I'll try to keep it to a minimum, but once I go home, all bets are off. These are the things we are going to try to get done before I get on the plane:

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1. Pick up my dress! Actually, it still has a few alterations that need done too for the hem. And I just saw a picture of the dress on another bride, so now I really have a good idea of what needs done. Also need to remind the bridesmaids to all get their dresses fitted!
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2. Pick the Father/Daughter Dance song- Yes, this still isn't done yet. Finish putting our song choices on
line.
3. Finish bugging the people who haven't given us an RSVP- we have heard from a lot of people, but we still have 15 or so people who are question marks.
4. Revise day of timeline and the task lists. Try to make individual ones for different groups of people (bridesmaids, groomsmen, parents, grandparents, etc).
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from www.lacqueristas.com/nails/red-white-tip

5. Get final beauty appointments. Time to get nails done!
6. Finish the photo wall.
7. Figure out how we are going to do first look pictures! This one really needs done before all the timeline stuff.
8. Write Thank You's for the wedding party and parental units. Finish buying gifts for them.
9. Keep up with white strips and practicing doing makeup!
10. Insurance
11. Doing the paperwork to change my Name (if I am changing it... is everyone this indecisive about this? I really have change. This whole thing seems like a pain in the butt).
12. Pay people! We want as many of the bills totally finished off before we come home as possible.
13. Make appointment with DJ.
14. Give vendors final head count.
15. Confirm final details for vendors (all of them! This is a huge one)

from itsabrideslife.com/tag/wedding-seating-chart/
16. Make our seating chart! Work out the layout of the room.
17. Finish our crafting we can do here.

24 days to go!
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