Minggu, 28 September 2014

Quote of the Week- It's Apple Week!

The first weekend of October is Applefest in Franklin, PA, our hometown. Since The Boy's family all work constantly through  the weekend, we will probably never go home for it (until of course we live in Pittsburgh- a classmate told me at our reunion that she only talks about moving to Pittsburgh with certainty, no ifs. I am using this tactic now. WHEN we move back to Pennsylvania, we might still go back for Applefest). This year, as I have reached the no fly zone of my pregnancy, we doubly won't be going home.

But we have mastered the fine art of celebrating that one time Johnny Appleseed came through in our own way on our own coast. Mostly, we eat apple type things (and hot sausage sandwiches) and decorate with apples and embarrassing crafts. As you might imagine, I am pumped for this whole thing, and the house already looks a lot more like fall. So this week's theme is about Applefest, in Franklin and elsewhere, and coming up with traditions to make where you are at feel more like home.

"Living in a small town...is like living in a large family of rather uncongenial relations. Sometimes it’s fun, and sometimes it’s perfectly awful, but it’s always good for you. People in large towns are like only-children.”- Joyce Dennys


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Sabtu, 27 September 2014

5 Things for the Last Two Days

1. Terry Crews on Huff Post Live about being a feminist and aggression/anger in sports- First of all, I mostly really really hate Huff Post Live, so I am glad I actually sat through this one to hear what he had to say. The article underneath focused on his soundbites about the amount of anger necessary to be a good football player and the way the sport encourages abuse/ alienation. All of this is well and good, but I was more encouraged to hear his criticism of how professional sports treat women as second class citizens and how he self-identifies as a feminist (if you don't think this is hard to do, you can actually see this big guy be kind of scared to say it and then go for it).

I am convinced that Terry Crews and Chris Pratt are in some sort of secret competition of dude's dudes who feminists freaking love. Tom Hiddleston is also in that game, and the post of his HeforShe support is also doing the rounds on Pinterest. I love that this is even a thing now, but seriously, how much cuter are men who openly respect women? Well-played, gentlemen.

2.  People who are going to get an A plus at parenting- Ack. We should have been those people, and yet, we do not show up for our various parenting classes and events with prepared questions and a strong sense of what the goal is. So far, we have left everyone mostly reflecting on how stupid we are and how little we know about this business. But I have now met plenty of soon to be moms who are going to be awesome at baby-parenting. My goal is that our spawn survives to toddlerhood. 

3. Flying Squirrel Pizza- Particularly, their cheesy bread. Oh to be pregnant and not have to feel so bad eating cheesy bread. We have our delivery pizza place, which is pretty obviously owned by Greek people, and I am pretty sure Flying Squirrel is run by a large pack of waspy hipsters, because all of their servers make me feel tragically uncool. Also, this is the only restaurant I know of that has Ron Swanson as Hans Solo as one of the decorations on the wall. I wanted to take a picture of it, but there were people right there, and I feel like that creeps them out.  I asked for it for Christmas.

4. Catching up with people- Yesterday was one of those days where I heard from a bunch of our California friends on facebook and on the phone. I loved hearing how they were doing and catching up with their lives, though it did make me miss living there (who would have guessed that would ever happen)!

5. All the hype for the opening of Chicago- If you live anywhere near Franklin, PA, go see this production (which I hear is awesome) at the Barrow Civic Theater. Do it for this beached whale and her adorable anchor of a fetus. I love that even on Facebook, you can really see how much people support each other and these shows in our small town!
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Vintage Bride of the Week: Stunning Selina in 1940s 'Bette' Wedding Dress

Dear Reader,
Bride of the week is Selina, stunning in 1940s wedding dress Bette from my Heavenly Collection.
Selina has a wonderful figure. And the Bette dress with its lower back suited her so beautifully...
Groom Joe agreed completely. In Selina's words...
"The day was amazing and everything was perfect from start to finish. Joe loved the dress as did the guests and I felt gorgeous in it. I had a lot of comments and questions about who made it. 
 Thank you so much - I hope you're busy making lots of brides as happy as you made me!"
It was a joy to work with Selina - a privilege to dress such a delightful girl. Lucky Joe!
And of course, lucky me! I do love my job and I am very proud of all my Brides. Huge congratulations to Selina and Joe!
Love
Helena
Heavenly Vintage Brides

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Jumat, 26 September 2014

Wear Teal on Tuesday!

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Since I have been writing about Ovarian Cancer and the lack of awareness around it this week, I have really been obsessing over how we could raise awareness for this type of cancer. October is Breast Cancer awareness month, and things are already going up for it and about it (also, watch out for Susan G Komen, that foundation is sketch). I was talking to Shelly yesterday, and she noted that it can be frustrating that pink is EVERYWHERE in October, but just a month before she has trouble getting the word out about Ovarian Cancer. It makes her wonder why her mom doesn't get that same kind of support.


Rochelle and I talked a lot about the ALS challenge, and how we thought it was great that people did learn about the disease in the process of doing the kind of silly challenge. Even if no one donated a penny to Ovarian cancer this month, just raising awareness and knowledge about this cancer would be a huge victory. So that is what we are going to try to do.


Every Tuesday in September (obviously we are late for this year, so we will have to go big next Tuesday!), I am going to wear teal. I will post a picture of my awesome teal outfit here, on facebook, and on instagram with a fact about ovarian cancer. It's that simple. Since we only have 1 week to do it, I am really hopeful that you do this with me! If we can shine a light on Ovarian Cancer for one day (not to mention continue references from a ten year old movie), I think it will be a big victory. If you know Ann, or you know one of us who loves her, this is a fun way to show her some support! Next year, we will go bigger and do it every Tuesday in September, but I think there is no time like the present to kickstart it. It can be silly, or you can rock the best teal business in your wardrobe- there is no way to do this wrong!

So, everyone ready? Tuesday, September 30th, wear teal! Share your fancy duds and some knowledge about Ovarian Cancer! Help us to bring attention that may lead to earlier detection and a WAY lower mortality rate! September 30th! Tuesday! Teal! Join us!

I will remind you (I love a good reminder!), but everyone plan your duds now! This goes for the boys too!
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Kamis, 25 September 2014

3 Things for Yesterday- John Malkovich, Sick Days, and Daniela Comini Book Covers

Sandro Miller, Andy Warhol- Self Portrait (Fright Wig), 214 and 1986- from http://www.boredpanda.com/portrait-remakes-malkovich-homage-to-photographic-masters-sandro-miller/
1. John Malkovich as Andy Warhol- Sandro Miller's John Malkovich recreations of classic photographs play more like John Malkovich re-enactments of famous people (I mean, really, how much of the history of photography is actually about movie stars? Way less than this series would suggest), but I still kind of love them. Also, the Warhol photograph is not particularly on point stylistically, but it's amazing how good Malkovich looks. He is good, because he pulls off some figures he certainly has no right to. I love it.
2. Sick Days- The Boy woke up yesterday and did not feel up for work at all, so I had company all day. I didn't get as much done as I would have, but it was neat to have his company. Also, we did my favorite exercise, which is to walk to Ben and Jerry's.

from www.lauramars.de
from mag.magentafoundation.org
from artsy.net
from www.cjamesgallery.com
3. Daniela Comani's book covers- At first this 2007-2008 series of gender swapped book titles plays a bit like a one off gag, but the longer you think about it, the more you can reflect on how the history of literature is mostly about dudes and dude problems (or ladies who misbehave and are punished). The gender politics of the canon has certainly been discussed and revisited, but presenting the physical objects emphasizes the power of their presence.
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Rabu, 24 September 2014

It's Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month!

Why should you care about Ovarian Cancer? September is Ovarian Cancer Awareness month, and this disease certainly warrants our attention. Ovarian Cancer is not one of the most common cancers effecting women (it only makes up about 3% statistically), but it is one of the most difficult to diagnose, and for that reason, one of the ones with the highest mortality rates.

Early diagnosis is so difficult that often by the time the cancer is found, it has already grown through the abdomen and may no longer even qualify as purely Ovarian Cancer. Aunt Ann was in this position when they found her tumor. She was 48. It has been a tough battle, but she is kicking cancer's butt. Her experience may have been totally different with earlier diagnosis, but this is not a real possibility yet. 

The American Cancer Society predicts that about 21,000 women will be diagnosed with Ovarian cancer this year, and about 14,000 will die from it (so 60%). In comparison, almost 300,000 women will be diagnosed with breast cancer or carcinoma in situ (the earliest phase of breast cancer), and about 40,000 will die from it (so about 13%). The numbers are much smaller, but the treatment is less successful.One of the reasons for this is that the average age of Ovarian Cancer diagnosis is relatively late in life (their 60's), but where other cancers have made a lot of progress, the mortality rate for this cancer has only fallen a very small amount.  In other words, it may seem like a less significant disease than breast cancer, but it still causes incredible damage, and it receives a tiny fraction of the research support.

You can learn all about Ovarian Cancer, it's symptoms, treatment, etc. on the American Cancer Society website. Though it has a lot of information, if you poke around long enough, you might notice there aren't as many opportunities to directly volunteer or contribute to Ovarian cancer. You will also read that early detection of this disease is less common, that its symptoms are easily mistaken for other problems until the cancer has traveled through the abdomen, and that papsmeres will not detect it. They most often use ultrasounds and CA-125 tests to keep an eye out for it in high risk women, but even that has not been proven with research yet. Researchers continue to look for options for early diagnosis, but they haven't gotten there yet.

So what is there for you to do? First, know your own family history and be ready to keep an eye out. This one is a sneaky one, but be sure to talk to your lady doctor about it, so you can be aware of your choices. Aunt Ann's daughter Shelly is going to get ultrasounds regularly to be on the lookout.

Think about donating to research or volunteering for Ovarian Cancer. This is freaking hard to do, but the National Ovarian Cancer Coalition is a great place to start if you are looking to run a race for Ovarian Cancer or to do some other fundraising for this cause. They have started the "Run to Break the Silence on Ovarian Cancer" which is still growing, but may be in a city near you. You may also be able to find a chapter to volunteer!

Building awareness can also be done- this group in Massachusetts has fundraisers and awareness events planned. If this is really close to your heart, maybe you could write them to start a branch in your own area? Because it is so rare, people may not pay much attention to this cancer, but with some solidarity and awareness, there might be a decrease in such late diagnosis.

I think groups are getting more pro-active about how the information can be shared and activated by the public after the ALS challenge (to mention another disease that is nasty and cruel, but often receives little attention). At Whyteal.org, you can get infographics to share on your wall or even try to start off your own viral activism.

30 Days of Teal- Ack! Alright, clearly I am about 24 days late to this party, but the Ovarian Cancer National Alliance is really onto something here. If you want to get involved, they have a lot of options and ideas every day.

So this week on the blog is devoted to Ovarian Cancer and the amazing women putting up a battle against (especially Sargent Ann!) it. I think this is an area where we could do better, and even if you don't know someone personally who has struggled with this cancer, everyone knows how important early detection is for the cancer battle, and it just isn't available here yet. I am going to keep thinking about how to help in this fight, and I will let you know what I come up with.

Do you know anyone who has Ovarian Cancer? What do you think are the most effective ways to spread awareness about cancer?

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